Sample list – for women

Here’s a sample list you can use as a woman to find the right man to date and get married to – so you can start and build a strong and healthy marriage. Dealbreakers (Non‑Negotiables) Optionals (Nice-to-Haves) And here’s how to prepare your own list, what to prioritize and what not to focus too much … Read more

Sample list – for men

Here’s a sample list you can use as a man to find the right woman to date and marry – so you can start and build a strong and healthy marriage. Dealbreakers (Non‑Negotiables) Optionals (Nice-to-Haves) And here’s how to prepare your own list, what to prioritize and what not to focus too much on.

How to Create an Effective List

The Problem: If You Don’t Know What You’re Looking For, Anyone Looks Perfect Most people date with no clarity or direction. They follow feelings, culture, spark, loneliness, attraction, or whatever looks good in the moment. When you don’t know what you’re looking for, your heart’s easy to deceive. Scripture warns you to “keep your heart … Read more

Why it’s important to know how to please your future husband – to have a healthy and strong marriage (Even if you’re truly born again and live a daily lifestyle of holiness to God)

Many women assume that if they are truly born again, prayerful, modest, and living holy before God, then their marriage will automatically flourish. But holiness does not replace skill. You can be holy, and your husband still may not look forward to coming home to you or sit near you. You can love God deeply … Read more

Why it’s important to know how to please your future wife – to have a healthy and strong marriage (Even if you’re truly born again and live a daily lifestyle of holiness to God)

Many people assume that if a man is truly born again, lives holy, and fears God, then his marriage will automatically thrive and flourish. But holiness does not replace skill. You can be holy and still be a difficult or unavailable husband. It’s why many men of God, even though they preach, counsel and help … Read more

Why Every Woman Needs a Reliable Income for a Strong, Healthy Marriage

For years, society told women that life would simply “work out.” Just be pretty, be pleasant, find a man, get married, and everything else will fall into place. That lie has destroyed countless homes. The world has changed—economically, spiritually, morally—and pretending otherwise is not faith, it is foolishness. God calls women to wisdom, diligence, and … Read more

Why You Need a Reliable Source of Income for a Strong, Healthy Marriage

Many people want a beautiful marriage but ignore one of the most basic ingredients God built into human life: work and money. Not hustle culture. Not greed. Not chasing status. Just simple, steady, honest work that produces income and stability. People say, “Love is enough.” It isn’t. Love is essential, but love without responsibility collapses … Read more

Essential Mindsets You Must Build Before Marriage: A Practical, God‑Rooted Guide to a Healthy, Strong Marriage

Marriage is not a cute upgrade to your lifestyle—it is a holy calling designed by God. In Scripture, marriage is where two become one flesh under God’s authority, not two people trying to keep each other entertained (Genesis 2:24; Hebrews 13:4 NKJV). If your mind is not prepared, you will drag your confusion, sin, and … Read more